|Finding California Gold, miners searched in mountains, I simply walked in Santa Cruz - Photo by DW|
Perhaps I am I searching for the same traditions I learned as a young girl, or, it is the curiosity of what other people do, whether it is family or community. I discard the old saying, “Curiosity killed the cat” – and I learn by watching and listening to the people around me.
I searched the internet with the keyword “tradition” receiving 140,000,000 results. I looked up the dictionary meaning of tradition – I found four descriptions:
a : an inherited, established, or customary pattern of thought, action, or behavior (as a religious practice or a social custom)
b : a belief or story or a body of beliefs or stories relating to the past that are commonly accepted as historical though not verifiable
: the handing down of information, beliefs, and customs by word of mouth or by example from one generation to another without written instruction
: cultural continuity in social attitudes, customs, and institutions
: characteristic manner, method, or style
Remember that traditions are different from habits, or behavior patterns acquired by frequent repetition (as written in the dictionary). Traditions and information passed to you through the years by your family and community. I believe you may create new traditions to pass to people too.
We inquire about our family ancestors we did not get to meet while growing up - these people are a part of us and our traditions.
One lesson I have learned is everyone has individual traditions – these are very important to each one of us. Even people in the same families and communities hang on to different traditions - ones that may resonate with them.
I have learned a great deal from sitting down and listening to people, actually listening to their thoughts, actions, and behaviors. What is important about each person and their traditions they enjoy?
|Escape to my walking trail - Photo by DW|
I return home and cherish my own traditions. I have multiple traditions, some I grew up with like eating buckwheat pancakes on a cold, holiday morning (raised in the midwest) – some I am creating on my own like looking for unusual items on my walks by the ocean on holiday weekends after eating my buckwheat pancakes. I follow this action of taking walking trips at home and in my travels in different regions.
Instead of resolutions this year - What tradition do you follow or have you made?
2013 ~ I discard some unusual memories of the challenges last year ~ grateful to have an angel on my shoulder ~ and I am ready for the New Year ~ Smiles! The Fun Tour Guru