Sunday, December 24, 2017

Germany Memories - Stories Matter

Happy Holidays! Merry Christmas! Fröhliche Weihnachten!

Our stories matter everywhere we go! Save your memories 

 Three of my Favorite Pictures

Left Berlin, Right Dresden

Wood Merry Go Round in Dresden


Remember to preserve your favorite memories now!  The Fun Tour Guru

My favorite Germany trip story - 

Christstollen Bakery in Germany

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Sunday, October 8, 2017

Downtown Siena Italy: Architecture and Impressions

Let's wander through the streets of old town Siena, Italy. 

And compare this old style architecture we find. 


Again, this is 3 and 4 stories high in places, yet without the high density feeling.  And the decorative pieces on the buildings, focal points of towers and churches, and old style homes above the shops where people live.  

  Architecture and impressions of Siena, Italy ~ The Fun Tour Guru

Which do you prefer?  


Saturday, September 30, 2017

Downtown Rothenburg ob der Tauber: Architecture and Shopping

Downtown Rothenburg ob der Tauber

I miss the spirit of this traditional style downtown gathering place for the community, crowds, music, mixed use architecture, and large window displays for shopping.  


The decorative pieces on the buildings, focal points of towers and churches, and old style homes above the shops where people live.  

This is 3 and 4 stories high in places, yet it does not have the high density feeling. 

Capture the spirit of downtown around the world ~ The Fun Tour Guru 

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Thursday, August 10, 2017

How to Understand a Language You Do Not Speak

One concern people have on their trips is how to communicate when they go to international countries.  I use my own honesty and authenticity to communicate.  I asked this in my April story and interview, "What advice do you have to be comfortable with this barrier?"  

I am excited to share with you more about this topic from my fantastic guest writer.  Kristi Saare Duarte has been to over 70 countries across 6 continents, speaks 4 languages and relies on none of them to speak to locals -- here’s how:

How to Understand a Language You Do Not Speak By Kristi Saare Duarte

1997. Arusha, Northern Tanzania. In a dusty beer joint. I remember that I caught myself laughing. Embarrassed, I looked around to see if anyone had noticed. But no one was looking at me. For some reason, they didn’t find it strange that a mzungu was laughing at their joke in Swahili.

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On this, my first trip alone through Kenya, Tanzania and Uganda, I realized that one can intuitively understand a language—any language—once you stop listening to the words. At that point, in the Arusha bar, I knew perhaps ten sentences and twenty words in Swahili: Habari za safari? How was your trip? Una miaka mingapi? How old are you? Unatoka wapi? Where are you from? I didn’t speak the language by any stretch. But I had understood the gist of the conversation. And those drunken Arusha men, they knew I had understood. They smiled back at me and lifted their Tusker beers to cheer me.

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That first trip gave me the travel bug. 

I practically worked to travel. Saved a dollar here, a dollar there, and then I bought a plane ticket. The more remote and dangerous a place appeared, the more I wanted to go there. Everywhere, whether at a Kurdish wedding in Aleppo, Syria, or in a Buddhist temple in Tachileik, Myanmar, I found I could communicate with the people I met, even if they did not speak a single word of English. I always managed to ask for “no meat,” without knowing the words. Of course, gestures and facial expressions help, but there’s something else in the works when you speak to another human being: listening to the space between the words. Quiet your mind while it’s busy trying to decipher the foreign words and associate them to familiar expressions. 

Instead, connect to the other person on a soul level and you’ll be surprised at how much you understand.

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I’ve tried to fictionalize this phenomenon in my novel, The Transmigrant, an alternative take on the lost years of Jesus where he travels along the Silk Road to India. In the first century, there was no universal language. Wherever Yeshua traveled, he had to learn the local language. Yet, the more enlightened he became, the easier it became for him to communicate with others, including the deaf and mute.

But you don’t have to become enlightened to communicate without words. 

Once you open your heart and are willing to receive, you will find that understanding other languages is possible if you simply quiet that doubting voice that says you don’t understand. The trick: don’t listen to the words. Just listen to the space between the words.

Four years ago, my husband and I traveled in China. By then, I had visited almost seventy countries where I had successfully communicated without words. For some reason, the Chinese people we met had no desire whatsoever to try to communicate with us. One day, we passed a Mahjong club in Xi’an and asked if we may enter. They welcomed us in. What a laugh! We had so much fun learning about who was married to whom, who cheated at the game, and told our story about where we came from and what we were doing in the Shaanxi Province. And yet, not a single word was spoken. In this Mahjong Club, they were all deaf.

When both parties are open to communicating this way, it is entirely possible for language barriers to fall away. This is known as mind-to-mind communication.

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But mind-to-mind communication is not as far out as it sounds. In 2014, scientists at Harvard Medical School, Spanish Starlab, and the French firm Axilum Robotics, sent a thought via computers from India to France to prove mind-reading is possible. And certain tribes among the aborigines in Australia have used telepathy for millennia as a means of communication.

So next time you find yourself in a remote part of the world where you cannot speak a common language and would like to order a glass of water. Think the thought first, visualize the glass, look into the waiter’s eyes, and smile. Then say the words out loud, “a glass of water.” Try it. You will be amazed.


A native of Sweden and seasoned world traveler, Kristi Saare Duarte has lived in Sweden, England, Estonia, Spain, and Peru and has spent time in over 70 countries across 6 continents. She is fluent English, Spanish, Swedish and Estonian. By day, Kristi is a professional asset manager and has worked in the fields of healthcare management, advertising, and finance. She is also a trained Reiki healer and spiritual channel. She lives in New York City with her husband.

All pictures are used with special permission from Kristi. 

Namaste ~~ The Fun Tour Guru & the spiritual side

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Saturday, April 22, 2017

Book Review: Return to Glow: A Pilgrimage of Transformation in Italy

Book Review:  Return to Glow: A Pilgrimage of Transformation in Italy

When a book comes to you effortlessly, you know there is a reason. This happened to me in January 2017. I scrolled through my emails and stopped when I read this subject line and title: 
“One woman’s solo pilgrimage along Italy’s Via Francigena brings challenge, healing”

In Award-Winning Memoir, Novice Hiker and Huffington Post Blogger 
Tackles Italy’s Historic Pilgrimage Route, Mending Her Soul Through Travel

I recommend this book to my fellow women travelers. The memoir is an easy read, and follows Chandi Wyant’s journey through one of my favorite regions — Italy.  My own favorite themes tugged at me throughout the work — a woman and solo traveler reconnecting with herself, and reawakening with every step she took on the pilgrimage. I also relished the Italian countryside, the ancient tales of Italian art and history intertwined with everyday living, and the local stories found in small Italian villages. 
I sat down for a week immersed in this book during the intense February rain we had in Northern California, and read Return to Glow from cover to cover. I absorbed each page of Chandi’s journey as she mended her soul through Tuscany. I noticed a strong emphasis on these three themes, and received more answers from Chandi regarding her spiritual discoveries, as well as the conversations she had with the people she met, and the history of the Italian regions she walked through.

I felt the struggles she was going through before the pilgrimage, specifically with how her life was in the beginning — a challenging operation in Italy, immediate emotions of separation from her spouse. I appreciated how she received affirmations of the journey both before and during the trip.

Tuscany Italy Credit to FunTourGuru
 A Gripping Read on Travel and Self-Discovery

This is an engaging and readable book. Below I will share my favorite part of Chandi’s journey, along with more of her reveals.

My favorite scene was when she was in the village of Pontremoli, and documented her stay with B&B owners Adriana and Lorenzo. The trio engaged in an in-depth conversation on the local Italian war history of nearby villages while eating an Italian dish of testaroli al pesto and enjoying homemade wine. This couple intuitively assisted and encouraged Chandi through the daily physical struggles that came to her feet during her stay. I actually felt the aches when she detailed this foot injury.  

FTG: Is there one place (or person you met) that was the most powerful and resonated with you for this spiritual journey? 

Chandi: One experience that I found powerful was in the town of Sutri, where I stayed at a convent of Franciscan nuns and watched them hold a service in their garden in front of their chapel. I felt that I had stepped out of my world and into theirs for a few minutes, and experienced their way of surrendering. I realized that they have learned to surrender in a way that many of us in the west would like for ourselves, but don’t know how to achieve. 

FTG: Your pilgrimage went through many unknown villages and popular towns we know today like Cinque Terre. What was your favorite place on this journey? 

Chandi: The region in southern Tuscany called the Val d’Orcia was stunning to walk through, from San Quirico d’Orcia to Bagno Vignoni, and from there to Radicofani.

Bagno Vignoni is unique in that it’s the only town in Italy where the main piazza is a pool of steamy water. While the Etruscans may have known of the thermal waters at Bagno Vignoni, it was the Romans — great connoisseurs of hot springs — who developed this as a spa town. When the Western Roman Empire fell apart, Bagno Vignoni fell with it, but the town perked up again when pilgrims began to come through on Via Francigena, stopping to rest in the hot, healing water. 

The rectangle of water in place of a piazza makes for an evocative sight in winter when the hot steam rising from it contrasts with the cold air. It equally appeals in summer when the homes around the water are bright with flower boxes and warm, sunny stone.

FTG: What changes have you made to keep following the intuitive direction you found? 

Chandi: I have learned not to block myself from listening to my heart. I have learned in fact, to block the chatter in my head about duty to allow my heart to have room to speak. 

FTG: I enjoy going on trips by myself, and get questions from other women asking me about walking solo. How would the spiritual journey have been different if you had not been by yourself — if a friend had gone with you?

Chandi: It would have been very different if I had not been solo. It never occurred to me to seek out a companion for this particular journey. I wanted the outer journey to facilitate an inner one, and I felt that to get the most out of the inner one, I needed to be alone.

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 FTG: I know one challenge is when one does not speak the language, and I am fortunate to consistently find connections who speak English. I also use my own honesty and authenticity to communicate. What advice do you have to be comfortable with this barrier?

Chandi:  Yes, it would have been different had I not known the language. Knowing the language allowed me to have a deeper experience with the locals I met, whether it was a chat with a man giving me a ride, or conversations about God with the nuns I stayed with.

Try to learn at least the basics in the language. In Italy, the Italians tend to be incredibly gracious and encouraging when foreigners try to speak even a bit of Italian. 

FTG: Most of the people Chandi encountered were men on the pilgrimage except the nuns she described above. There were reveals of women in her family who played roles. 
This sentence from the book spoke to me: “Truth is how we feel, it is about expressing our emotion in an authentic way.” Why are so many women reluctant to express the truth?

Chandi: I want to encourage women to speak their truth even if they fear being shamed. 

Today, despite all our advancements, women still receive strong messages about conformity — mostly about conformity to what the patriarchy has deemed acceptable.
“Don’t have too loud of a voice, don’t be too assertive or you’ll be called bitchy, don’t make strong boundary statements when you find yourself in an unhealthy situation because you have to be nice no matter what. Don’t put yourself first because you were placed on this earth to cater to everyone else. Stay silent when people make jokes or comments that are derogatory to women because if you say something you’ll be told you cannot take a joke, or that you are making too big of a deal out of it.”

I do see more and more women breaking free of being boxed up like that. But I also see that despite our strides in empowering ourselves, that those messages and that kind of boxing us in will exist for as long as the patriarchy exists.

To avoid the patriarchal trap, one of the best things we can do is to constantly and actively support other women with their empowerment.

Support women speaking their truth. Don’t fall into the patriarchal trap of dissing on other women who you could in fact admire. Memoirists who became famous, like Cheryl Strayed and Elizabeth Gilbert, received quite a lot of shaming comments. Strayed was called a slut and Gilbert called whiney. But in fact, it would be just as easy to call those women courageous for expressing their innermost emotional life on the page and presenting their most vulnerable self to the world.

It is an act of speaking one’s truth, and in that act is one’s empowerment.

We need to recognize when women are being courageous, and encourage it. We need to recognize that what the patriarchy has historically defined as courageous (conquering other countries) may not be courageous in the female world.  We need alternative ways of being courageous, and we need to hold these up for each other.

Chandi’s Self-Reflection

Chandi: I found that focusing on opening my heart, keeping it open, and making unexpected choices from the heart were vital to connecting with the spiritual gifts that my journey held.

I also knew that a pilgrimage was not going to be a panacea for all life’s troubles. But in discovering my resilience on this trek, I gave myself the tools to face challenges with an inner steadiness and a clear knowledge of my resilience, which has served me well.

A Modern Italian Pilgrimage 

Chandi is realizing her manifest of 30 years and vision she spoke of in the book, and moving to the Tuscany region where “she is immediately applying for the permesso di soggiorno (a special permit to stay which is needed in addition to the visa) to help others learn about Italy.”

Chandi: I will be leading short stints on the Via Francigena (two days walking on one of the prettiest parts). This is something people can add to their trip to Italy. It will get them off the beaten path; allow them to walk off the pasta, wine, and gelato; and give them the opportunity to see the gorgeous countryside at a pace that allows them to slow down and savor, which is what Italy is all about!

I agree! Thank you Chandi Wyant for this additional information. This is a fun and inspirational book to read and share with friends.  ~ The FunTourGuru

Chandi Wyant is a historian, foodie, writer, and passionate world traveler. She runs the Paradise of Exciles website, where you may purchase Chandi’s memoir on the this web  page

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You may sign up for her newsletter, to learn of offerings in Italy, in the sidebar of her site: Paradise of Exciles.

Another resource to use is The Via Francigena website. Be sure to click on the interactive map of the route.  

Ed. Note: Italy pictures are credited to the FunTourGuru and Return to Glow book cover image credited to Chandi Wyant. I did receive a complimentary book for this review, I received no other compensation. 

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